http://open-source-energy.org/?topic=2065.0 if you can comment on that something is good, so can I and yes my comment is very relevant as you said we like constructive criticism here on the forum then why does he think that his way is better and more valuable so why he does not listen when someone says that something is better,why he comments on other people's flaws and its not seen so why I have a feeling that he thinks he's smarter and better than others(This applies to all of you) ,and you said that we must work together so Why do you refuse to work together why you can not accept positive criticism ,criticism and respect the opinions of others is responsible for good buisness,after all, we all use only 15% of brain capacityso so in reality no one is a lot smarter from others the difference is only in the fact that some of us have better ideas
Ris, you can ask those questions with out wording it the way you did. you classified " all German's" that the same as racism. that is not tolerated. this is what i mean by "out of context."
then you posted:
" why does he think that his way is better and more valuable so why he does not listen when someone says that something is better,why he comments on other people's flaws and its not seen so why I have a feeling that he thinks he's smarter and better than others"
That is the proper way to ask a question. this is the point I'm trying to make. you must watch how you say things. its a lesson i have learned over the years.
"and you said that we must work together so Why do you refuse to work together why you can not accept positive criticism"
I'm not sure why you think i refuse to work together... i don't even have a comment on this one as i don't know where i haven't worked together under my own power. sure a lot of others stopped working together with me but that was not my choice. it was the other person's or group's
in the past i have had a hard time excepting positive criticism, but for the last 2+ years i have learned how to except it and have not maid a big deal out of such a positive criticism. i have fund it helpful. one just needs to look at it that wright way.
"respect the opinions of others is responsible for good buisness"
now there is the word. respect.
"after all, we all use only 15% of brain capacityso so in reality no one is a lot smarter from others the difference is only in the fact that some of us have better ideas"
just because others have better ideas than some of " us" just means we all have a different way of thinking about it. In your eyes your ideas will look better than my ideas in my eyes. that's the way it is.
@All
so now that we understand that some ideas are better than others dose not mean that we should talk down to those other ideas. it just means that if we don't have anything positive to say. ( including positive criticism) then we should not say anything at all.
am i the only one that remembers the quote " if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"
i think ill change this to " if you don't have anything helpful to say, don't say anything at all"
helpful:
cooperative, accommodating, kind, caring, friendly, neighbourly, sympathetic, supportive, benevolent, considerate, beneficent, useful, practical, productive, profitable, constructive, serviceable, beneficial, advantageous, expedient, favourable
just some thoughts...
~Russ